Thursday, 28 November 2013
Monday, 25 November 2013
Sunday, 24 November 2013
Is your friendship sabotaging your weight loss?
Knock the tall poppy! It’s such a shame that we don’t cheer on people that are successful, instead we knock them and try and sabotage their success. Yes a generalisation and a pretty broad statement but as a Fitness Professional I see it every day.
Knock the tall poppy! It’s such a shame that we don’t cheer on people that are successful, instead we knock them and try and sabotage their success. Yes a generalisation and a pretty broad statement but as a Fitness Professional I see it every day.
Taking the first step to lose
weight can be a challenge and we know the obvious ones. A challenge that we don’t prepare for is our
friends sabotaging us. Friends are used
to sharing a piece of cake or indulging in chocolate with you. If you honestly look at some of your
friendships you enable each other with your eating. The friendship is based around food and
feeling better about eating food you know you probably shouldn’t but you have
someone eating it with you so it must be ok!
You make a conscious decision to
improve your life and change your eating but your friend no longer has an
eating buddy and doesn’t know how to cope.
Their goal is to get you back to the old friend as quickly as possible,
they may not realise they are doing this but they are feeling lost. For example you are at a party and are trying
to eat well, stay on track and remain focussed on your goals. Friends that are
used to you eating junk food will constantly try and get you to have ‘just one
piece’ or ‘just one bite’ and they can be very determined, there is nothing
quite like peer pressure. What do I do
you ask.....Use strategies like I will in a minute I’m just going to the loo,
or I will just get a drink first and put some distance even for a minute
between you, them and the food. Chances
are they will forget about you not having shared in their treasure trove of
snacks.
Other saboteurs take form in the
‘that’s crazy, your being ridiculous’ why are you going to the gym, waste of
time and money. These types are often
jealous, just ignore them, hold your head high and be proud.
People generally don’t like
change, you have made an important step to improve your lifestyle and you
should be congratulated. It won’t be
long before they start saying you look amazing and are asking how did you do
it.
Thursday, 21 November 2013
If it's meant to be it's up to me....A statement of truth! You can have all the support and fancy equipment but at the end of the day it's up to YOU. If you want to change your lifestyle, your health, your fitness or your weight the buck stops with you. How badly do you want to achieve your goal? How angry do you get when you try on clothes that are too tight? Is the quick satisfaction of a chocolate bar worth it? You are in charge or your results......
Real Fitness for Real Women, is here to support you and make the journey as painless and as quick as possible but at the end of the day you have to be responsible for your actions.
Real Fitness for Real Women, is here to support you and make the journey as painless and as quick as possible but at the end of the day you have to be responsible for your actions.
Tuesday, 19 November 2013
It's time to share my weight loss story ...
Size 20 to size 10!
Size 20 to size 10!
I got picked on at school for having fat calves! Yep, crazy opening statement but I promise I
will come back to it.
As a Fitness Professional I was embarrassed that I had
previously had a weight issue. I hid it
for years and didn’t share my past with anyone. Very tentatively I started to
share my past with clients, I was amazed at how open they were to hearing my
story and in actual fact how much more my amazing clients were able to relate
to me. They no longer saw me as just a
Personal Trainer but as someone who had genuine empathy for where they were at
on their weight loss journey.
The second stage of sharing my story starts now, I think
it’s important for you to understand what it feels like to reflect on your
weight gain and loss and the emotional roller coaster that goes with it. When you are in the ‘zone’ you truly cannot
grasp your emotions and your feelings.
Yes I went through the puppy fat stage as an adolescent but
through sport and lifestyle I came out the other side in one piece. No this is not when I got teased about having
fat calves!!! Late teens I was a ‘normal’
‘average’ young lady and as crazy as it sounds this is when I got teased for
having fat calves...girls can be so nasty!.
But I will get back to the fat calves in a minute. 20’s and early 30’s no
drama’s I worked, played and partied as a happy size 10 – 12....then......
Yep I fell pregnant....excitement, joy...love and incredible
weight gain!!! Yeah yeah you say don’t
we all but wait a minute....My son was born 11lbs at 38 weeks! I didn’t eat for 2, I didn’t over indulge I
just got huge!!!! My son was a tourist
attraction for the nurses wanting to see the biggest baby born in the hospital
for that year. The hardest part was I
still looked 6 months pregnant for the longest time. How heavy was I? I wish I knew! I was so embarrassed to stand on the scales,
and now I regret not knowing because I didn’t get the chance to own that number
which is such a big part of the weight loss journey. What I do know is that I was a size 20
elastic waist band. If I had to be
honest I was definitely 100kg and my son was a few months old.
I remember trying to buy ‘gym wear’ and they didn’t go up to
my size. I lost the plot in the middle
of the shop! Yep a hormone melt down,
how was I supposed to go to the gym when I don’t have gym clothes and how am I
supposed to fit into gym clothes if I have nothing to wear to the gym.......How
did I feel? ..... frustrated and embarrassed!
Now to make matters worse in my hormonal over weight world my
son was a big boy, not over weight but off the charts in every
measurement. As he moved on to solids I
made everything from scratch for fear my son was going to have a weight
issue. People would ask why is your 1
year old not walking? Aaahhh!! Sorry he is 6 months old. I’ll stop here and say he is 10 now and is as
lean as a whip with an amazing body, healthy appetite and a well rounded young
man! Phew!!! But it was hard as a new mum being overweight
with a ‘large’ child. I felt embarrassed
and I felt people were staring at me. I
felt insecure, uncomfortable and when I got cranky at something trivial I over
reacted because I added my anger of my weight to the situation. Was my weight relevant to the issue at hand? Absolutely not but being fat exaggerated my anger.
What made it worse was that I tried everything to drop the
kilos. Yep I tried every fad diet and
gimmick I could and nothing worked.
Why?....Now I know why, none of it works!
I understand now that if there was a quick fix we would all be
skinny!!!!!!! What did I do......
My son was a year old, I couldn’t lose weight and it
depressed me. I could have eaten my way
out of it or in to it. But instead
something snapped and I said "that’s it"!.
I used that anger and channelled it towards success. I ate ‘well’, no gimmicks, healthy food that
was ‘clean’ no processed food, no starvation diets nothing silly. As for exercise I enlisted a Personal
Trainer. I was accountable for weigh
ins, measurements and I tracked my results.
Was it hard? You bet! Did I have highs and lows and then more lows for
sure. But that’s how it works, the key
is learning from the experience and learning how to maintain your loss.
I did lose all the weight but I got to a size 14 and said,
"well I am a mum now this is it, be happy"!
Those of you who know me know I'm not going to settle for something I am
not happy with. At this stage I had had
my second baby, my oldest was 3 my youngest 1 and I was an athletic 14 but I
still wasn’t happy. This is when I started my
studies to become a Personal Trainer. I
knew I would be a better Trainer/Health Coach because I had life experience
behind me. I achieved a comfortable size
10-12 and I have maintained that range going on 7 years. Could I be a lean size 10? Yep I could but
that doesn’t give me room to enjoy life and all things yummy in
moderation. The goal is not to be as
‘skinny’ as you can be, the goal is being at a weight where you feel comfortable
and able to maintain.
Trust me maintenance is not hard, it’s actually the easy
bit...when you know how, that is. But first
things first; you need to get there.
Yo-Yo dieting and fad diets are not going to get you there, what it will
do is put you on a weight loss/gain roller coaster for the rest of your life
and you will still be angry, frustrated and disappointed with yourself. Education
is key, you need to respect where you are, own where you are at and refuse to
go back. How? Yes it is scary but it can be done...I know I
did it and I am prepared to teach you.
Back to the fat calves!!!!!!
I will fill you in on the rest of the story. I was looking for some long boots just this
winter and the sales lady was looking me up and down checking out my
legs...She said ‘you have skinny calves, wait right there’ I literally burst
out laughing as I remembered being teased as a 16 year old for having fat
calves. Sure enough she brought out an
amazing size 10 pair of boots that they hadn’t been able to sell because they
are a slim fit. Lucky me, a $300 pair of
boots for $39 and a compliment of having skinny ankles.....it made my day.
Now....I am a successful Personal Trainer and a Fitness
Director for a leading health club chain in Australia. I am able to support and
motivate so many people on a daily basis but it’s not enough. I know what it feels like not being able to
get into a gym or not being able to find someone who you can connect with to
help you on your journey....I share because I share your pain but I also want
to share your joy in achieving your goal.
Unfortunately there are not many photos of me and my son, I was embarrassed by my size. It's not a great example but it's the best I have, check out that double chin!!! 32 years old Size 20, and now a size 10/12 at 42 years old! I look younger now!!!
Tuesday, 12 November 2013
Real Fitness for Real Women
Weight Loss Stories, Advice, Success, Tips, Tricks and Facts...
What’s the secret to sustainable weight loss and a healthy lifestyle? Forget pills, potions and quick fixes the answer is simple! Good nutrition, exercise and a positive state of mind. The answer may be simple but the journey can be long and challenging.
Sarah Shaw - Your Real Fitness Coach |
Weight Loss Stories, Advice, Success, Tips, Tricks and Facts...
What’s the secret to sustainable weight loss and a healthy lifestyle? Forget pills, potions and quick fixes the answer is simple! Good nutrition, exercise and a positive state of mind. The answer may be simple but the journey can be long and challenging.
Taking the first step to a healthier you is
always the most difficult but you don’t have to take that journey on your own.
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